I was born and raised in Mexico City. I lived there for 18 years of my life before I moved abroad for the first time for college to London. Currently, I have been living in the US for over 5 years now (plus a few months in India in between), so some of my Mexicans habits have definitely changed over time to adapt to this country. Every time I go back to visit my hometown I realized I’ve lost some habits I used to have there. Here are 10 Mexican habits I lost when I moved to the USA.
10 Mexican Habits I Lost When I Moved to the USA
1. Saying “salud!” (or “Bless you!”)
In Mexico, no matter where you are when you sneeze there will always be someone, stranger or not, to tell you “salud!” which literally translates to “health!” but technically means “Bless you!”.
During my first while here in the US I was almost upset when I would sneeze and no one would say “Bless you!”, I almost found it rude. Later, I got used to it and even stopped saying it myself and sometimes even forget to say it when I take my trips back to Mexico.
2. Kissing and hugging
In Mexico, greeting someone with a kiss (basically touching cheeks and making an air kiss sound) and/or a hug is very common. You even greet strangers this way when it is in a casual environment such as the strangers being friends of your friends, or meeting your girlfriend’s family. You wouldn’t kiss or hug say your job interviewer or a doctor you met for the first time.
Here in the US, I would never even think of approaching someone to greet them with an air kiss. I’m also reluctant to hug anybody, and hand shaking still feels weird to me when meeting people in casual environments.
3. Being late
Mexicans are infamously late most of the time. I’m not sure if it’s just Mexico City or the whole country, but even though we mostly blame it on the traffic, I definitely think traffic should take the blame at least 80%. We also somehow always have something to do last-minute. My husband actually calls me “last-minute girl”.
If you are invited to a gathering and they tell you to be there at 3:30pm, the hosts will expect you to arrive at 4 – 4:30pm. It is also common to tell your most unpunctual friends a different earlier time. Amongst a group of friends, there are always a couple of them that are always late.
Here in the US, being on time becomes really stressful because Americans hate unpunctuality and even after just 5 minutes of lateness they will start to wonder where you are and exponentially start getting upset.
I find that I am way more stressed out getting to places in the USA than in Mexico. I am not even an unpunctual person, and I find it quite stressful here. Sometimes I do wish people here would relax more about it.
4. Taking my time
Mexicans enjoy taking their time; we don’t live rushed all the time like they do here in the US. I have three major examples I have experienced:
At a restaurant
At restaurants, we love taking our time eating, drinking, chatting and very importantly eating dessert. The waiter will never rush you to leave or bring your check before you ask for it.
Here in the US, I often feel rushed at restaurants, like they want me to leave just so they can sit more people and make more money. I don’t like that they bring you your check before you ask for it and sometimes even before you are done eating! Many times I have wanted to order dessert but couldn’t because the check was already on the table.
At cashier registers in grocery/convenience stores.
I never even noticed that people behind me were impatiently waiting for me to pay. I would have never noticed that I apparently take forever to take out my wallet and pay while others are waiting until it was brought to my attention by my American husband.
He explained that I need to be ready to pay and not take my time because people behind me and the cashier person get frustrated. I do dislike that I have to now consciously always try to hurry up to pay, have my money out even before I know the total and put my things away quickly. Yes, I often still use cash!
While walking on the streets
I think us Mexicans are infamous for really taking our time, walking slow and blocking the way because we are busy chatting with each other. For the longest time I found myself almost running to play catch up with my walking husband. Over time I have developed a faster walking pace but my short height still doesn’t help since my steps are like half the size than everybody else’s.
5. Eating schedule
In Mexico the biggest meal of the day is lunch not dinner and lunch happens around 3:30pm, with dinner coming around 8pm as a light fare. Dessert and coffee after lunch is very common.
Here in the US, the eating schedule looks something like 8am breakfast, 1pm lunch and 6pm dinner.
I like the Mexican schedule way better and I have tried to adapt it here but I can’t seem to be able to make it work. I don’t like having the heaviest meal to be the last one because it messes with sleep, and I usually crave dessert after my heaviest meal which here in the US ends up looking like me having chocolate, cookies or ice cream at around 8pm in bed watching tv. This really negatively affects my sleep and overall energy.
In Mexico, I used to go out with friends to a bar, a house party or a club every single weekend. Weekends are loved by everyone but especially beloved by Mexicans because it means time to unwind. Going out till 3am is common on the weekends.
Here in the US, my partying consists of either going out for dinner + drinks and a movie (and being back before 10pm), or staying at home and watching a movie.
By the way, this is not a complaint. I quite like the new version in my life. More relaxed, less crazy, and less drunken dead brain cells.
My drinking habits changed too. In Mexico, I would never drink at home or during the weekdays. Here it seems that having a drink at home after work or in the evening is very common. We often have wine in the house and often drink some during any day of the week, but the amounts I drink are still way less compared to weekend drinking in Mexico.
7. Being aggressive behind the wheel
In Mexico City, traffic is pretty insane and you can’t play too nice; you gotta be a bit aggressive if you want to move. Running lights is kinda common and yellow light doesn’t mean “slow down”, it means “hurry up before it turns red”, although not technically.
Here in the US, I’m scared of going a little bit over the speed limit and I will never ever run a red light. I have to admit I often don’t come to a complete stop at stop signs if I see no cars, and still speed sometimes.
Oh and honking! I almost forgot. Honking is pretty essential in Mexico, unlike in India where I feel they have their hands taped to the honk. In Mexico, honking serves a specific purpose. Either to let someone know they’re about to hit you, honking at someone who aggressively cuts in front of you (aka: angry honk), or honking at jerk driving behaviour, or sometimes even to get the attention of someone you know.
I don’t think I have ever used the honk in the US because I am terrified of it since no one honks, but there are a few occasions where I have wanted to.
8. Valet parking
Because finding parking spots in Mexico City can be a bit of a drag, using valet parking is very common. Even casual establishments like taquerias will have valet parking depending on the location. It’s also more affordable and worth it.
Here in the US I have used valet parking like once or twice in many years. It definitely seems like a luxury. Oh and don’t get me started on parking fees, they are so expensive here! Compared to parking prices in Mexico, it makes me a bit mad.
As already mentioned, dessert is an important meal for Mexicans; we have a sweet tooth, some more than others. It is common for any restaurant to offer a good selection of desserts.
I find it kind of hard sometimes to find decent desserts in many restaurants here in the US.
10. Lime on everything
Limes are a great food. They go with everything, or at least us Mexicans think so. It is common to see sliced limes in most dishes.
We put lime on tacos, meat, fish, fruit, candy, chips, popcorn, raw vegetables, soup, beer, mayo… So good. Also, pretty much every restaurant offers fresh “limonada” (limeade, sparkling or still), which is usually my drink of choice. I definitely miss my limonada when eating out in the US.
In the US, I hate to say I rarely buy limes because they are pricey and somehow don’t go well with everything here. I buy more lemons.
So these are some of the main Mexican habits I lost when I moved to the USA.
What are some habits that changed when you moved to another country?